Something? Nothing? EVERYTHING?
Who knows?
I don't know why I am writing this, cause no, its not gonna affect anyone at all, whatsoever.
But, lately, I have been hearing, A LOT about, the word, its absurd how people just generalize everything about it.
Okay, to start with, when do you know you love someone?
Wait, do you even know it?
It just happens, right?
In a blink of an eye.
It just happens.
And you can't help it, no matter how hard you try.
And then there are this "villians" who destroy everything for you.
And who would they be? The ex's ^.^
Yes, the jerks, bitches who never actually loved you, but you loved them with all your heart, brains, and everything. :P
Happens. And then you are heartbroken, you change the whole idea of "love" in your mind, and yeah, you are not the one to blame.
Its natural.
But why let the people in your present suffer because of people in your past?
What's the fault of the people that actually do love you?
Why are they the ones to suffer?
Oh, and the thing I have been hearing about the most, the biggest question in people's mind, nowadays, is, can someone fall in love with someone without even meeting them in real life?
Answer - Yes, you can. (okay before you say "you are so stupid", I have an explaination)
The basic facts, the REASONS, you love someone, is you care for them, a lot, even a little thing that bothers them, bothers you too, You just want to talk to them, most of the time, why? Cause you are just happy. Just simply, HAPPY.
What if you think you found the RIGHT one, and only cause he/she is faaaaaaaaaaaar away from you, does that mean, you should let him/her go? Why? Cause duhh, you guys cant walk hand in hand on beaches, can't meet each other, can't hold each other > that's SICK.
Tbh, yeah, I understand, people kinda need it, but WHOAA! you let go off a PERFECT thing just cause of that?
And yes, things ARE perfect, you make it perfect, and when you want to.
You just never realize it, humans are way too unobservant.
In other cases, Trust.
Who do you trust completely? Ahh, come on, don't tell me that you trust every single person you meet in your day to day life? Seriously, just because some bitches broke your trust in past, does not mean, no one else is worth it.
Oh, talking about "bitches in your past"
If they are heartless enough to break your heart, be generous enough to save it from falling apart.
Not like they give a shit about you, anyways.
What else?
What is it when two people understand every single thing about each other, before even the person utters it, you know exactly what they are thinking about.
Maybe I am way too unrealistic about it, but wait, when was love about being real, anyways?
"The truth is Everybodys gonna hurt you, you just got to find the ones worth suffering for"
^ So absolutely true.
Maybe I don't make sense, but yeah, that's what I think.
I am not trying to change anyone's views or anything, but that's something I believe.
Okay, once you are in love, you are told to stop. > LOL.
Stop cause its gonna hurt you. (STOP hurting me then)
Stop cause it can't work out. (How do you know?)
Stop cause I don't love you anymore (hahaha, you sure you did earlier?) :P
And for the people who DO get into relationships, why on earth do you get into one when you can't compromise with little things?
Its simple, If your guy/girl doesn't like you talking to another girl/guy, that means he/she is insecure, in better words, scared of losing you.
and then you start feeling trapped, why? cause that's not what you wanted.
you wanted the person you were in love with, but no, you don't wanna compromise with absolutely little things. And No, you are not at fault, we are all individuals, and we all bother about our wishes, our freedom, our lives more than anything and everything.
Which is absolutely reasonable, because no one stays with you always, anyways.
Why don't they stay?
Boredom is one of the reasons.
MOST people get bored of each other. To be REALLY honest.
I mean, yeah, you just run out of things to say, its not even funny.
I am blank. now.
I have no idea why I wrote all this.
But just wanna say, if you believe in something/someone, do it completely, and if you don't,just don't, at all, whatsoever.
Why hurt yourself by half trust or whatever you wanna call it.
And yeah, you are the dumbest person on earth if you trust the same person over again, or say give them another chance.
If they have cheated on you before, they will again, and you will be dumb enough to forgive them again.So, Dont.
Okay, so now when you are heart broken, lets start believing in - "Love jaisa kuch nai hota" > Hota hai.
Aur kuch aisa hota hai, that changes you, DRASTICALLY. Without you even realizing it.
The way you think, the way you talk, the way you wanna live, the way you see things, even the way you dress, every little thing changes, within you, its like you become a whole new person.
I may sound way too cheesy and filmy but it IS the bestestestest feeling. It's like you don't know unless it happens to you.
Even after turning into a whole new person, you realize that's what you were, always, its just that one person who bought the changes in you. And its good, cause you feel found? idk, If how to explain it.
Maybe I sound too stupid, unrealistic or whatever you wanna call it. Its just that something, you can't help it.
I can go on and on and on about it..but lets just end this with...If you actually read the whole thing, there was that one person you were thinking about, throughout, just don't let that person go. No matter what.
P.S. Everything you read above was clearly, and completely what I feel, you don't have to agree, at all.
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